Your Brain on “Almost There” Mode (Why the Final 10% Feels Impossible)Read time: 6 minutes Hey, welcome back. Last week, I wrote about why the smartest businesses in the world automate the tasks people secretly resent, and how friction removal beats innovation almost every time. You can read that (and all past issues, here) This week, I want to zoom in on a different kind of friction. The invisible resistance your brain creates the moment you’re close to finishing something meaningful. A project. For some reason, the final 10% feels harder than the first 90%. Here’s why. The Psychological Cliff Before the Finish LineWhenever I’m working on something new, a product idea, a pitch, a piece of writing, the beginning feels effortless. Possibility is intoxicating. But then, suddenly, I’m 80–90% done… Not because the task got harder. The closer you get to finishing something, the more real it becomes. The early stages let you hide inside potential. Completion invites judgment. That's the psychological cliff. Your Brain Thinks Finishing = ThreatThere’s a cognitive pattern at play here called the task-completion paradox. The short version: Because finishing removes “maybe.” Once you finish something, the world gets to react. So it slows you down. You don’t. The Final 10% Requires a Different SkillThe first 90% is momentum. The last 10% is courage. Finishing forces you to:
Early-stage work is a playground. You’re not struggling because you’re lazy. How I’ve Learned to Push Through “Almost There” ModeHere are four habits that genuinely changed my completion muscle: 1. Expect resistance - don’t interpret it.The last bit is supposed to feel heavier. 2. Put a real deadline in the world.Internal deadlines are elastic. 3. Ship the version that exists - not the version in your imagination.Every finished thing creates better future versions. 4. Assume your first version won’t be your best.You free yourself the moment you stop trying to make your first attempt your masterpiece. A Reframe That Makes Finishing EasierWhen you think of the final 10% as “the dangerous part,” you’ll stall. Finishing isn’t about perfection. Every time you complete something, you quietly teach yourself: That self-image compounds faster than skill. To completing what you start, |
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Your Family Already Has Values. You've Just Never Named Them. Read time: 5 minutes Hey, welcome back. Last week, I talked about being unremarkable and why it was one of the best things anyone has ever called me. You can read that (and all past issues, here) This week I want to tell you about an afternoon that's become one of the best things we've done as a family, and how you can do a version of it whether you've got three kids, a partner, a flatmate, or just yourself. The confession that...
I'm Unremarkable Read time: 5 minutes Hey, welcome back. Last week, I talked about the pros & cons of giving your brain to a machine. You can read that (and all past issues, here) Today I want to tell you about a word I picked in January and what it made me do six months later. I'm Unremarkable I just got the results back from a preventative full-body MRI scan. Both Melissa and I came back as "unremarkable." That's the actual medical terminology. It means nothing unusual found, nothing...
The Pros & Cons of Giving Your Brain to a Machine Read time: 5 minutes Hey, welcome back. Last week, I talked about the ups and downs of my fitness journey, and how it's making me a better dad in the process. You can read that (and all past issues, here) Today I want to talk about AI. And I want to say something that might annoy a few people. Four Years In And We're Still Talking About Potential We're four years into the AI era now. And I find it fascinating that most of the conversation is...